This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Nicholas Pisano who was born in Pennsylvania on February 24, 1983 and passed away on March 31, 2008 at the age of 25. We will remember him always

 

Dearest Nicky Well 2 years ago today we laid you out for all to come and pay tribute.What a turn out you had,everyone loved you.I miss you more and more each passing day and turn to the Lord for help.I love you so much it hurts.I wrote you a poem to tell you how much I still miss you.

Most people say:"I can't believe 2 years have gone by"
But I'm stuck on March 31 2008 the day that you died
My days last forever,the nights are so long
Someone took you from me and now you are gone
What right did they have to decide your fate
And leave me with these feelings of anger and hate
My life changed forever on that fateful night
No matter what anyone says it never seems right
"I lost my child" I find the words blurt out
When deep down inside,all I want to do is scream and shout.
Mechanically,I tackle my everyday chores
Knowing soon that the Lord will open up new doors
I pray for His guidance,for I know He truly cares
He'll help me climb out from under this avalanche of despair
Please talk to me about my child it's important to me
You may be uncomfortable,but don't you all see
I spoke of him often over the years
His death didn't change that,even though it brings tears
So rest peacefully for now my precious child
Lord willing I'll be joining you in a little while

Love always and forever missed XXXXXXXXXXOOOOOOOO Mommy

 Dad’s hurt too
People don't always see the tears a dad cries, his heart is broken too when his child dies.
He tries to hold it together and be strong, even though his world's gone wrong.
He holds his wife as her tears fall, Comforts her through it all,
He goes through his day doing what he's supposed to do,
But a piece of his heart has been ripped away too.
So when he's alone he lets out his pain, and his tears come like falling rain,
His world has crashed in around him, and a world that was once bright has gone dim.
He feels he has to be strong for others but Dads hurt too, not just the Mothers,
He searches for answers but none are to be found, he hides behind a mask when he is feeling down.
He smiles through his tears, he struggles and holds in his fears,
But what you see on the outside is not always real, men don't always show how they really feel.
So I'd like to ask a favor of you, the next time you see a mother hurting
over the loss of her child, please remember... a Dad hurts too.

 Your with GOD now Nick and i don't know if your able to read this, but i know GOD can. Although if you were standing next to me this is what i'd say....
They say to take it day by day but its more like minute to minute. They say it will get easier as time goes on but the fact of you not being here sets in a cold harsh reality that seems to worsen everyday. The sun doesn't seem to shine as bright anymore and the days seem so much longer. It hurts, i hurt. Nothing is the same for me. My mind is all messed up. I feel so many emotions at once. Even when i'm laughing, i'm still crying even when i'm smiling i'm still mourning. I think about you CONSTANTLY. Your beautiful eyes, your smile, your laugh, your words, your smell, your presence, that horrible phone call, that bright white room, the smell of the flowers. I'm all over the place right now , sometimes i still feel like I'm dreaming!!
Yeah, life has to go on and people have to live their lives but mine is so incomplete Nick and i don't ever see it ever being complete with you not here. I don't see anything for me being TRULY happy as it was when you were here. People say "You still have to live your life Rach" but, their ain't much here for me besides our family. This is not my home and nor was it yours. I see the picture GODS giving- that there is some SO MUCH BIGGER and much more IMPORTANT than this world-GOD he is the most important!! So I have to pay close attention, cause the world makes it so easy to be distracted and to think other words.
I love you brother and miss you more then words can express.

your only sister<3
P.s
GOD-i know its perfect bliss there but, since i can't please give my brother a hug and a kiss and tell him its from his sister.
~
Rachel Pisano,

 April 28, 2008

brother my big brother i cant sleep without u. cenzo remembers everything about you. unfortunatley i had to see you like that i am so sick without you. i cant get it out of my head i wish i was there!!!!u helped make me what i am today.... cause we never had a silver spoon in our mouth and plus we never had a room in our house 8 heads 3 beds gotta sleep on the couch..ahah remember spitting that to me?... i wouldnt change a thing. nick dirt and fatneck brothers for life...blood makes us brothers life makes us friends. cant believe i am typing this it makes me sick. praise jesus you always were fast guess thats why u finished the race first..pray for me brother i need it i will never be the same ever again
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brother vinny,